Harmless Flirting
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Wifey's Weekly Q and A
Dear Wifey:
I’m a happily married woman, but I think I have a crush on my daughter’s doctor. He’s new to her pediatricians’ office, young, attractive and attentive. He seems genuinely interested in what I have to say. I would NEVER cheat on my husband; I love him, but am I wrong to flirt with the doctor?
- Mrs. Harmless Flirting
Dear Mrs. Harmless Flirting:
It depends what you consider flirting. You are not the first or only woman to ogle at their baby’s doctor. Mommy crushes are quite popular, especially with “young, attractive, attentive” men that are servicing you in some capacity – your dentist, your mechanic, your son’s T-ball coach or the hot guy serving you Starbuck’s on your way to work.
Just because you’re married, doesn’t mean that you don’t notice good looking men anymore. It’s harmless as long as you keep it in perspective and don’t cross any lines. In no way should your actions, or his, stray away from the doctor-patient relationship. You’re married, but you’re still human. Enjoy the doctor’s visits, but get your real flirt on with your husband.
Winks & Smiles,
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5 comments:
LIke me and the hubs say, you can walk through the garden, just don't go picking the flowers. We do have eyes afterall and when a good looking man gets within eyesight I have to look. Glad it's not the GYN you have a crush on LOL.
Good advice Wifey and yeah Mrs. Cooper thank God it wasn't the GYN! I have a small crush on my kids barber:) He is short and cuuuutte but, I just like the eye candy and conversation. I told my hubby which keeps him laughing and or marriage open and honest!
xoxox
Ms. Wanda
Good advice. Flirting w/ hubby usually leads to greater benefits. ;+)
I have a crush on the dentist!! I do kind of bat my eyes at him but it is kind of hard to flirt when someone is telling you that you don't brush your teeth well enough. That just kind of spoils everything!! I would never cheat on hubby but I agree with you that it's harmless as long as you don't cross any lines.
flirting is probably okay as long as the flirtee doesn't bite ( :
Then you're in a whole new ball game. Generally speaking I don't think it'a a good idea.
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